Abide: To remain, to stay Growing up we are taught you have to work hard to get what you want and to achieve your goals. I want to first state, I don't think this statement is completely false. We are taught that if we want to, "Beat the best we have to be the best." In order to achieve such goals we push ourselves to the extreme at times. We practiced day and night, and we drank multiple cups of coffee, so we could stay awake to study. We attended every club, party and social group, in order to prove we were worthy of friendship. Everything was based around what we were doing so we could get what we wanted. I had a conversation with my husband not to long ago and really felt men fell subject to this "doing" mentality. They are taught at a very young age, "You want it, work for it." They are taught that if you don't work, then you are lazy or are not a man. Again, they are taught early on, what you DO gets you what you want. They are tau...