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Genuine Celebration

I listened to a pod cast recently that basically read my inner most secrets and gently displayed them on a table for me to sift through like a junk drawer I was cleaning out. I felt as though the thoughts and feelings I had towards this particular issue were not really issues at all.  I knew everyone has these feelings from time to time so it's just human nature and that's that. Wrong. I have multiple people in my life who have accomplished much or in my eyes have done great and big things. When I would talk to them whether by phone, face to face or social media I exuded with celebration. I told them how I was so proud, how I was cheering them on, or how awesome that was for them and their journey. If it was social media I liked or even loved a post.  Then yesterday in the midst of my beautiful mess, my dialog with the Lord went like this: God: "Do you really feel that way?" Me: "What do you mean, why yes I celebrate them, of course I have on my happy pants ...
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Do It Afraid

When I think back on my life I can remember the times I quit something so early in the process,  whether it be piano, dance, soccer and even school for that matter.  I struggled at a very early age with fear.  If something looked as though it was too difficult or I wouldn't be any good at it, I quit.  I am reminded of jobs I would get and feel as though I just wasn't good enough or I would not be successful at it and I would leave and move on to the next.  I struggled even when I started writing this blog back in Alabama a year ago.  It has always been a dream of mine to write but I got stuck in my own fear of thinking it wasn't going to be good enough or effective enough or perfect, that I just stopped.  It has been a very vicious cycle in my life. I went to a conference recently and out of the entire experience I was hit with something I believe will change the course of my life.  "Do it afraid."  I, for so long have feared the unknown an...

Plan Interrupted

I had a vision.  I saw a nicely set table.  It was beautiful.  It had place settings, food and a crisp white linen table cloth.  Everything was set and ready to be enjoyed.  All that was missing were the attendants.  I walk into the room and the appearance and smell was delightful. As I walked towards the table to find my seat, in the blink of an eye, what was once so beautiful was flipped upside down.  The food and dishes were everywhere and broken.  This is how I felt like my life looked.  I felt that everything was so perfectly set and ready for the dinner bell to ring.   Little did I know His plans were much different. It reminds me of when we first started this journey of saying "Yes," I would call it our beautiful mess. But then the table was beginning to be set and things were beginning to look as though "dinner" was almost ready.  In one quick swoosh everything was all over the place and I got angry.  I was mad at the...

A Life of Wonder...The Lost Dream

I find it being no coincidence that I have run across a number of people questioning their passion and dreams for their life.  They have found themselves walking through a life of wonder.  The majority of them have worked hard to achieve degrees, careers or families but there's something missing.  Even in the midst of all the good taking place there seems to be a void. I was walking through this with someone the other day and reverted back to an exercise during a teaching I heard. We were asked to close our eyes and think back when we were a kid.  We were then asked, "What did you dream of wanting to be?" We all sat in silence and tried to remember that specific dream, goal or achievement.  We all opened our eyes and went around the room calling out what that one thing was. Then we were told to close our eyes once more and find out, 1. Was it fulfilled, 2. If not what happened to snuff out our dream from taking place. When I walked this person through the sa...

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas

Around this time of year I am flooded with memories of my childhood.  Christmas was my favorite time of year.  We celebrated in a huge way every year.  We were all together and there were more presents than I could count.  I loved it!!  After I got married I thought ALL Christmas's will be that way, especially after we had kids.  I wanted Christmas to continue being my favorite time of year and that changed drastically. I think back to our first Christmas as a married couple.  We got married in January and pregnant in March, meaning we were going to have a Christmas baby.  Caleb was born and Christmas was a week away and we were BROKE!!  Like really broke.  David knew how much Christmas meant to me so he went to Walmart and bought the biggest tree for our teeny tiny apartment and the last of what was left of the ornaments (so you can imagine what those looked like haha) and brought it home to put up.  As I laid on the couch holdin...

Lets BE Honest...

When starting this journey the Father said "Share the story."  I knew doing this would be challenging at times and really raw.  I had to take some time to really be OK with letting you all in on such a personal season.  I wasn't sure what sharing the story would look like.  I knew it would consist of facing a lot of fears like writing and at some point speaking in front of people even though I have done it before it's a scary thing for me.  So I began to face one fear by writing it all down and letting you all in.  This next topic is hard but so necessary.  It's not a piece of me that is completely healed but we are working on it for sure.  I feel that so many of us women are struggling in this area and it's time to let you know you are not alone.  So here we go... Saying "I Do" to the man of my dreams was the most incredible moment in my entire life.  I dreamed of marrying him since I was a little girl.  I hoped and prayed and wi...

Drop your net - Hold Fast to Him

Hebrews 10:23 Let us seize (forcibly) and hold (bearing down) tightly (securely) the confession (acknowledgment) of our hope without wavering (trembling), for He who promised (guaranteed) is reliable (dependable) and trustworthy (honorable) and faithful (consistent) [to His word]; I was trying to think of the best way to talk about what it means to "Hold Fast."  I have many stories of how we have held onto Him on this journey but honestly I didn't want to share them because they are so raw.  But "That Lord" showed me that is what it's all about.  I started this journey of writing not to make my name great or for people give praise to me or us but for it all to get turned back to Him.  My desire is to show you the goodness and faithfulness of the Father as we have experienced Him here.   In being obedient to the call of the Father and going, like I said before we sold all that we had, left jobs and friends and family.  We arrived in Trussville Alabama ...